【The six Types of Suffering】- The fault of no certainty

There is no certainty. Those who are your close relatives could become your enemies in the next lifetime. Those who are your enemies could become your close relatives. It says that "your father becomes your son." This is a reverse in the roles. But this reverse still maintains a close relationship. Many of your enemies become your relatives. So, do we get ourselves preoccupied with, ah, you are on good terms with me and I am on bad terms with you. These are all utterly meaningless, utterly meaningless. After a few short decades have passed, who knows who is going to be who? At this time,we shouldn't be preoccupied with these things. We should not be busy about such things. If we understand this, then we know there is nothing that we can count on. Therefore we should understand first that for the close relationships that we have in this mundane world, these are not something that we can count on! Hence for these,"there is nothing that you can count on."

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70B 14’21” Vol 9 of Master Jih-Chang’s Discourse P200 L3
English Lamrim Vol 1 P281

日常师父法语📡70B 14’21” 手抄稿第9册P200 L3

希求解脱 : 无定过患

没有一定的。这个本来很亲爱的，到下一生变成怨敌，本来怨敌又变成功亲爱的。上面说「父转为子」是颠倒，这个颠倒还是亲，可是有很多怨家仇敌转过来了。那我们是不是也一天到晚，唉呀，你跟我好，我跟你怨，是毫无意思、毫无意思。短短的几十年完了以后，到下一次谁晓得谁是谁？这个时候都不是我们应该忙的事情，不是我们应该忙的事情。我们如果了解了这个，那一无可凭。所以我们第一了解，现在世间的亲爱，一切无可凭信处啊！所以这些东西,「是故全无可凭信处」。