Venerable Jing Yuan:Teach through Spoken Words and Conduct 净远法师:言传身教
Teach through Spoken Words and Conduct
Spotting the mistakes our children make,
we are compelled to teach them, to reprimand, to give a beating.
It would leave a mark on them.
What could the mark be?
It could be the experience of setbacks, a sense of inferiority,
or animosity.
When our children grow up,
they may very well use similar tactics on their own children.
- Venerable Jing Yuan
言传身教
看到孩子做错的,
我们想教他、骂他、打他,
而他可能印象深刻。
对什么印象深刻?
可能是深深的挫折感、自卑,
也可能是仇恨。
他将来长大了,
也可能用这一套来对他的孩子。
- 净远法师