感恩骂你的人 Be Grateful to Those Who Scold You
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除非你活在地狱，
不然，天天时时刻刻被人骂，
是稀有的事。
除非你精神大大不正常，
不然，天天时时刻刻被人指指点点，
是稀有的事。
周围的人，
跟你讲感恩的话，
跟你讲恭维的话，
跟你讲称赞的话，
谁敢明目张胆骂你呀！
敢骂你的人，
敢打你的人，
敢批评你的人，
敢毁谤你的人，
可能用手指也数得出来。
打你，消你业障；
骂你，挫你骄慢锐气；
批评，让你反省过失；
毁谤，让你世间名声全毁，更求后世安乐。
有人骂你，正好低头认错；
若骂回去，你也是恶人。
有人谤你，正好谦虚前进；
若谤回去，种下地狱种子。
他骂你谤你，
让你谦虚，
让你反省，
让你提升心灵。
而他不惜自己造恶业去三恶道受苦，
成就你的道业，
他对你是不是很有恩？
要感恩骂你的人。
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Unless you live in hell,
it is rare to be scolded constantly.
Unless one is deeply unwell,
it is rare to be criticized all the time.
Most people around you speak kindly, praise you, or flatter you.
Who would openly scold you?
Those who dare to scold, criticize, or even slander you—
you could count them on one hand.
Being hit helps dissolve karma.
Being scolded tempers arrogance.
Criticism helps you reflect.
Slander destroys worldly reputation, turning you toward deeper peace.
When someone scolds you—accept it and reflect.
If you retaliate, you become no different.
When someone slanders you—remain humble and continue forward.
If you retaliate, you plant seeds of suffering.
They help you become more humble, more reflective, and more refined—
while taking on negative karma themselves.
Are they not benefactors to your path?
Be grateful to those who scold you.
