【 Going for Refuge to the Three Jewels 皈依 】Not befriending non-Buddhist philosophers 不与外道共住

【Going for Refuge to the Three Jewels】- Not befriending non-Buddhist philosophers

【Thus, there are three proscriptive precepts: not going to other deities for refuge, abandoning harm and malice toward living beings and not befriending non-Buddhist philosophers.】

You will not befriend non-Buddhist philosophers.  Befriend means living together because these are the times when you exert influence on each other.  I have said this briefly yesterday.  When you are together, naturally, without you being aware, you will become stained (such as being stained by a color).   Whether you like it or dislike it.  Even with the commercials, when commercials come on, you are just annoyed.  When you are annoyed, this leaves an imprint on your consciousness and one day, an effect will be produced.  The habits of many people, [in fact] we can say that the habits of most people are set from their childhood through following their parents and the family.  They have nurtured these habits without being aware of them.  As soon as you are stained by them, you will be like this for the rest of your life.

SOURCE 来源 :

46B 09’34” Vol 6 of Master Jih-Chang’s Discourse P197 LL3
English Lamrim Vol 1 P194

日常师父法语📡46B 09’34”手抄稿第6册P197 LL3

皈依 : 不与外道共住

【此说有三，谓不归余天，于诸有情舍离损害，与诸外道不应共住。】

不再跟那外道共住，共住是大家在一起生活，这个时候会互相有影响的。昨天我已经简单地说过，你在一块儿的话，自然而然不知不觉当中就沾染上了，不管你欢喜他也好、不欢喜他也好。乃至于像广告，那广告来的时候，你就是讨厌它，你讨厌它，这个印象落在你的识田当中，它有一天会产生功效的。我们很多人的习惯，可以说极大部分人的习惯，都是从小的时候就跟着父母、这个家庭，不知不觉之中就养成了，沾染上了，以后一辈子就是这个。