【Human Life of Leisure and Opportunity 暇满】if someone berates me 人家来骂我一下

【Human Life of Leisure and Opportunity】- if someone berates me

We don’t even need to talk about miserable realms. We can use an example before us and get a feel for it. Needless to say, if someone comes and hits you, someone berates you, ah-yo, you will feel so agitated! People don’t even have to berate you, but just to give you a stare, you would begin to think why does he stare at me for no good reason? This will be on your mind for some time. This is pretty clear. Perhaps not even needing someone to stare at you, but that if you ask someone to do something, and he doesn’t want to do it, you would think, “Aye, this guy doesn’t listen to me.” So the mind goes into a rage and grows afflictions. But actually you should be the one to influence others! So we are actually in this kind of situation and we think we are cultivating. Cannot even fathom how flawed this (thinking) is! Just a little discomfort and you are “long gone”!

SOURCE 来源 :

31B 09’08” Vol 4 of Master Jih-Chang’s Discourse P243 L10
English Lamrim Vol 1 P125

日常师父法语📡31B 09’08”手抄稿第4册P243 L10

暇满 : 人家来骂我一下

我们现在不必说恶道，拿我们眼前马上体验一下：不要说人家来打你一下，人家来骂你一下，哎哟，你心里面烦得要命；不要人家来骂你，人家瞪你一眼，你心里想这个傢伙为什么瞪我，好端端的？你心里想嘀咕个半天。这个是非常明确的，不要说他瞪你一下，你告诉别人，叫他这样去做，他不听你的话，你想：哎，这个傢伙不听我的话，我心里都是忿哪，生烦恼。实际上是你要去，在这个地方影响别人呢！那我们就实际上是这样的一个状态，居然我们自己还觉得我在这儿修行，那真是不晓得颠倒到哪里去了！稍微有一点点小小的不舒服，那自己就早不行啦！