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Venerable Jing Yuan:Teach through Spoken Words and Conduct 净远法师:言传身教

Teach through Spoken Words and Conduct
Spotting the mistakes our children make, 
we are compelled to teach them, to reprimand, to give a beating. 
It would leave a mark on them. 
What could the mark be?
It could be the experience of setbacks, a sense of inferiority,
or animosity. 
When our children grow up, 
they may very well use similar tactics on their own children.
- Venerable Jing Yuan

言传身教    
看到孩子做错的,
我们想教他、骂他、打他,
而他可能印象深刻。
对什么印象深刻?
可能是深深的挫折感、自卑,
也可能是仇恨。
他将来长大了,
也可能用这一套来对他的孩子。 
- 净远法师  

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