Self-cherishing
Bearing grudges and harbouring complaints are indications of “self-cherishing”.
Coldness and detachment is the packaging of “self-cherishing”.
- Venerable Jing Yuan

我爱执
积怨、抱怨，是 “我爱执” 的表现。
冷漠，是 “我爱执” 的包装。
- 净远法师
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