If you think “he is hurting me”, though he is not hurting you, you are hurt by your thoughts; if you think “he likes me very much”, though he has not done anything, you are warmed by the warmth of your heart.
#VenZuhong #bwmonastery

如果想着 “他在伤害我”，这时他虽然没伤害你，而你却被自己的想法伤害了; 如果想着 [他很喜欢我]，这时他即使没做什么，而你已被自己的心温暖了。
#释祖宏 #吉祥寺

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