【The Varieties of Karma】- Reproaching with compassion

Now in this case, we gradually come to understand that those who are truly good to us, whether they are the teachers or fellow students and friends who truly wish to improve together, the teachers will certainly tell you often that you are wrong, you are wrong. They may even reproach you many times. Some would say, “Ah, isn’t reproaching a type of offensive speech?” Yes! If you just look from an external perspective, it is an offensive speech. They are the same. But there are a few things in the karma of offensive speech, they are the basis, attitude, performance and culmination. The attitude, what is the attitude? The most important things in attitude are motivation and affliction. Therefore, if you carry hostility and reproach others, this is offensive speech. But if you carry compassion to help others, then it is not [offensive speech]. Do you understand? This difference is right here!

SOURCE 来源 :

54A 00’16” Vol 7 of Master Jih-Chang’s Discourse P185 L2
English Lamrim Vol 1 P226

日常师父法语📡54A 00’16”手抄稿第7册P185 L2

业果 : 悲心中的呵斥

现在在这个情况之下，我们慢慢地了解了，所以在我们，所以真正好的，不管师长也好，共同的同学之友也好，在真正的共同增上的，师长一定随时告诉你，说你错了，说你错了，然后乃至于有很多地方呵斥你。有人说：「欸，前面那个呵斥，不是个粗恶语吗？」对！从形相来看，它是一个粗恶语，一样的。可是粗恶语的内容有几样：事、意乐、加行、究竟。意乐，什么意乐？意乐当中最重要的就是欲乐、烦恼。所以说，假定你说你怀着嗔心去骂人家，这个就是粗恶语；假定你是怀着悲心帮助别人的话，这个就不是。懂不懂？这个差别就在这里喔！