【RELYING ON THE TEACHER】- Only suitable recipient of the teachings can have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong correctly

It doesn’t necessarily have to be pampering you in every aspect or, on the contrary, berating you is always good; no, not like that! We have to recognize why he pampers? And why does he berate you? If you recognize the reason with proper understanding, both being pampered and berated are acceptable. Otherwise, either way would be wrong; this is what we should understand. What is the recourse for you to understand him? It is at least you need to become endowed with the ability of knowing why he pampers or berates you. With this discernment, then it is right! So, next, the author says that you have to be endowed with these characteristics, by then you will be capable of telling the difference clearly, this is too important!

SOURCE 来源 :

16A 02’17” Vol 2 of Master Jih-Chang’s Discourse P252 LL5
English Lamrim Vol 1 P75

日常师父法语📡16A 02’17”手抄稿第2册P252 LL5

依师 : 具相弟子才能正确辨别是非对错

不是一定说，哦，这样的处处地方纵容你一定坏，而反过来说，呵斥你一定好，不是，这不是！ 我们一定要了解：他为什么而纵容你？ 为什么呵斥你？ 如果你了解这个内容，你正确了解的话，纵容你也对、呵斥你也对； 你不了解的时候，纵容你也错、呵斥你也错，这个才是我们要了解的。 那你凭什么能够了解他呢？ 你至少要自己具足，辨别他所以纵容你为什么， 辨别所以呵斥你是为什么。 你能够辨得清楚了，对！ 所以他下面说，你一定要具足这个条件，那个时候，你能够辨别得清楚是非，太重要了！