忍辱 : 为什么会争论？

所以平常我们见解特别强的人，动不动好欢喜跟人家争论的人，千万注意啊！刚开始的时候，我们不一定是发脾气嗔的，但是就因为那个见解摆在那地方，梗在那里，动不动积在那里，等一下，一下就发起来了。一发，害了！这么个严重法哦！所以我们必定要深深地找到这个因所在，深深地找到这个因所在。

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日常师父法语📡121B 18'56" ~ 19'22" 手抄稿第16册P26-L2

121B 18'56" ~ 19'22"  Vol 16 of Master Jih-Chang’s Discourse P26-L2
English Lamrim Vol 2 P154

【Patience】 - Why do we get into an argument?

That is why for those of us who are particular strong in views, who would readily get into an argument with others, we must pay absolute attention to this! In the very beginning, we may not necessarily be throwing temper or angry. However, because the view is right there, stuck there and accumulating at all times, after a while, it can erupt all of a sudden. Once it erupts, then it is terrible! It is that serious! That is why we must go very much in depth to find the cause, go very much in depth to find the cause.