依师 : 不要评头论足

所以我们真正要在这个地方重要的，不要对别人去评头论足，他好，赞叹不已，他坏，你就说他。你自己看，我应该怎么办？「见贤思齐焉」。看见他精采，想：我怎么样才能够跟他学，他为什么能够做到，找到他做到的因，你能够努力去做，你就是他，就是佛。「见不贤是内自省也」，看见人家不对，自己反省，说：「啊，我可不要这样！」我们不要去评头论足别人，那是一点意思都没有，一点意思都没有。

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日常师父法语📡15A 12'08" ~ 12'57" 手抄稿第二册P224-LL2

15A 12'08" ~ 12'57" Vol 2 of Master Jih-Chang’s Discourse P224-LL2
English Lamrim Vol 1  P74

【Relying on the Teacher】 – do not criticize others from head to toe

Therefore, what is important for us now is not to criticize others from head to toe. When someone is good, [we would be] full of praise. When he is not good, [we would] criticize him. You need to examine yourself [and think] what should I be doing? [We should] “emulate the virtuous.” Seeing his brilliance, think : how can I learn from him; how did he accomplish it? Look for the cause of his success. If you are able to strive at it, you will become like him – that is achieve Buddhahood. “When seeing non-virtuous ones, reflect within”, when seeing others’ flaws, reflect on the self by saying: “Well, I should not be like that!” We should never criticize others from head to toe, which is completely meaningless, absolutely senseless.